There has been a lot said about the past events of Bethel.
It may be time for some people, on this blog, to move on.
If so, what do you think should happen to Bethel?
Some of you have stated very strongly that you think that it should have no future.
Let us try to focus on how it could change :
1 to avoid the problems of the past
2 it can be a group that has future
3 what direction could it have as far as activity/outreach/mission.
Comments
i believe it should desolve as there are too many bad memories and negative feelings from the whole of the catholic communtiy in perth and past and present members.
If people want a community to be in, there should be a completely new, fresh one started totally removed from bethel and the negative forces that drove it for so many years. The fact that K selected this new board is concerning to say the least. The whole hierarchy / pyramid power system has to stop
Is the centre still in the name of the elders? if so, does this mean they can sell it and pocket the profits??? Who's name is the centre in. This is an important question - does anyone know? Does anyone know if K tithed from his hefty wage? I've always wondered this.
It is not time for the blog to move on - I think as more people find this site they will need to vent.
What use is it for outsiders to discuss the future of Bethel - will the listen? I doubt it.
The defenders that have used this site continue to try to downplay the signficance of the problems and that really is concerning - the " if you dont like it move on " type comments do seem to ignore the vital issues of abuse, pressure, money and deciet. And the fact that things have only "just come to light". If this statement is true it just does not fit with why we all left over the years.
I feel it's hard to think of the future Bethel when the old one hasn't yet been dealt with. There are so many hurt people out there that need time. If Bethel is meant to be then it will happen - it's time to let go and let God - don't take by force.
Finally you have raised some very good questions as to who's name/s are on the title of the centre.
Another point I'd like to make is that God never worked for money. I found it hard to understand that our tithing went to wages.
If a new community does come into exisitence it shoudl be something that only has the good parts of what Bethel was and perhaps what it was meant to be.
The idea of having christians to travel on the journey with you as you bring up your family, to have trustworthy friends, appeals to me.
Perhaps it should be a community where the individual is cherished for being different and where those who feel called to do God's work in other areas are encouraged. There is no one way to follow God in your life. Just as no two people are the same. That is all part of God's plan. He made us unique, he gave us indiviual gifts and talents. We are all part of His body. It just does not work if we are all the same part.
I'd love to hear other's comments.
I find it hard that to believe many of the older Bethelites may have even given their retirement or pension money as Tithings and the elders didnt refuse the money that could have let these people live a little more comfortably... As I recall (from so long ago) I remember seeing most people giving tithings.
Thank god I only earned a little pocket money back then, even when we were at the Good Shepards in West Leederville (now called Catholic Education Centre) I remember those wooden framed green felt money catchers getting past around!!!(or was that church) and that was maybe 20-25 years ago....how much money REALLY has slipped by?? I could quite comfortably think close to 40 - 50k per annum at the least??!!! Jesus never past holey(hehe) socks around asking people to give him money
I believe as part of the congregation and for all who contributed, that all contibuters have a right to be shown financial statements and the whereabouts of this money.
Most of the problems with Bethel can ultimately be traced to the power hierarchy and the leadership structure of the organization. What needs to be acknowledged is that Horgan was able to do what he did by exploiting the organizational structure of Bethel. For one, the power structure cannot be so sharply peaked with so much power vested in so few. There have been numerous criticisms of hypocrisy towards contributors to this blog that have cited some level people’s free choice to remain in community as a sticking point. What should be made clear is that the power structure of the community effectively stripped people of their freedom to choose. Knowing people’s propensity to obey authority figures (see http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Milgram_experiment for the classic empirical investigations of obedience to authority), with so many answering to subservient to so few, it is unsurprising that it took so long for anybody to stand up to the leadership. If Bethel is to continue, the power must be distributed amongst the members of the community. Decisions must be made democratically, and the rules that govern the behavior of those in the community have to be logged and readily available (e.g., something of a Bill of Rights).
One obvious problem with a distributed leadership is that (some would argue) it undermines the purpose of having this sort of religious organization in the first place. If people can’t even agree on (or require a committee to establish) basic rules to live by, what is the group but a mix of people who occasionally meet socially? It seems to me that a guiding ideal of Bethel is a sort of theocracy, whereby the behavior of individuals within the group can be defined in terms of a set of rules (i.e., things one is allowed to do and things one is not allowed to do, all presented in black and white). Although I could hasten to argue on purely logical grounds why this is folly – Wittgenstein’s work has already shown that it is impossible to come up with an all-encompassing definition for the concept of a “game,” how then can we even fathom deriving a set of rules to define the way to live in a way that is acceptable to god? – I instead point to the oppression associated with formal instantiations of theocratic rule in Egypt and Iran. The lesson, I think, is that the best Bethel could hope for is a set of vague governing principles that would be reflected in any moral philosophy. That said, I would guess that the lack of well-defined rules for behavior would prove unappealing to people who voluntarily involved themselves with Bethel in the past.
On a related note, the level of prescription with respect to how people should/should not behave must be reduced for Bethel to have a future. Although I’ve already touched on the potential for a lack of appeal, I think the point can be illustrated by discussing people’s reliance on roles as a template on which to model their own behavior (e.g., within the context of marriage, a wife should behave in a way specified by A, B, and C). Bethel has advocated that people fulfill particular roles in a Christian context (e.g., that of a husband/wife, or a servant of god, or whatever). While this is not inherently problematic, the potential for abuse has been experienced first-hand by several contributors to this blog; namely, the subservience of wives (and more generally, by females of any age). This sort of thing has been the subject of empirical investigation as well. A classic experiment in social psychology is the Stanford Prison Experiment (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Stanford_prison_experiment). This study demonstrated that people are all-too-willing to fulfill particular social roles, particularly when under pressure from an authority with which they identify with (I think it is quite obvious that the members of Bethel fit this bill). People were randomly assigned the role of a prisoner or a guard in a mock-up prison at the university. The guards were simply told to keep the peace and the prisoners in line. Within days though, the experiment had to be called off, with guards enacting their roles, and abusing their power. Prisoners were abused (physically and verbally), and became increasingly withdrawn even though everybody knew that they were only participating in a psychology experiment. Thus, I would think it absolutely necessary for Bethel to scale back its teachings about social roles (particularly those that promote obedience as a virtue). It is these very teachings that reinforced the power structure that allowed Horgan to exploit others to his gain.
If Bethel can address these major flaws in its structure (a prospect that I seriously doubt), then it could well have a future. At the very least, it would be a future that is less vulnerable to exploitation. Sadly, I think that these major restructurings can only go so far. What is absolutely necessary for Bethel to have a future that is not characterized by systematic abuse of power and oppression of its members is for membership to be entirely voluntary. Voluntary inclusion must extend to children, and they should under no circumstances be groomed to join; that is, they should be truly free to choose whether they enter the community. As a conservative measure, I would suggest that people should not be permitted to join until they are at least 18. What I think many readers may struggle with is the idea that there is no such thing as a Christian child. There are children of Christian parents, but there is no child who understands the implications of their supposed religious belief (e.g., I daresay that no child could comprehend the concept of transubstantiation) to the extent that they could be considered an actual practitioner of their parents’ faith. There has been much said by former members of the community who voluntarily entered. However, very little has been said on behalf of their children, who were subjected to this lifestyle. For children who simply cannot accept supernatural beliefs, the knowledge that the community will inevitably restrict their contact with their family is truly damaging.
If Bethel can exist in an entirely voluntary manner (i.e., no children, who are incapable of providing informed consent), then perhaps it has a future. However, if this future incarnation of Bethel retains its rigid structure and pointed power structure, then it will merely be a matter of time before another leader exploits the community in the same way Horgan has done. In my mind, the only constructive move Bethel could make at this stage is to dissolve itself and keep what little dignity it still has.
Bystander, well said! I was a child in Bethel and it was truly damaging. I agree that they should dissolve as the people who have been put into power will no doubt become the new 4 elders and even if well intentioned have a huge potential of slipping into that role of power and letting it get the better of them.
i dont want a bar of any organised group, religious or otherwise due to my experience in bethel. I have however witnessed groups started maybe by 1 or 2 people but not really led by anyone, with no particular rules or commitment required. Just simply a group of people with a common interest, giving each other support. (like mothers group!) I've seen it and it works but still could never bring myself to go. If the people still in Bethel moved on, took a step back, had some time to themselves to reflect and started something less commital like this, I'm sure they would find it would be much more beneficial. Without being removed, I don't believe they can see clearly. At the moment, it would seem that they are going to try and salvage what's left and continue with the same pyramid power system that led to bethel's demise. I think it's about time the catholic church, after ignoring the problems for so long, finally stepped up and put an end to it. Where have they been all these years!!! It's not like the problems weren't brought to their attention on so many occassions. They could have ended this a long time ago and saved a whole lot of people, mainly innocent children from suffering.
As i said, i have witnessed many other groups and been amazed at the different feeling they had to the only community i had ever known. Just normal individuals with no rules, no pressure, no judgements, no commitment, no money requirement (other than tea/coffee kitty money) etc They've had such a nice feeling about them that has pleasantly surprised me. Being brought up in community I had just assumed that any organised religious group had a similar mentality. Even having said this, it still makes me freeze up with resistance at the mere suggestion by anyone to go to these things - something I don't know if I'll ever get over so this is more as a suggestion for the people that want something like this in their lives.
This whole taking a covenant which was like a marrige and breaking it was like divorcing is such a load of guilt tripping bollox! Really more like a threat.
You said it shouldnt be commital for children and although i fully agree, they would argue that the children cant get left at home by themselves all the time, given there is so many commitments.
Have a prayer group in your homes of an evening, meet in a park or coffee shop and share your lives and give support to each other. None of this needs compulsory tithing to buy one person a new volvo every 3 or 4 years and pay an exorbitant salary to. You could still have the support and be close to God.
To the current Bethel members, this is not a direct attack on you but rather the system and rules that the communtiy requires.
Wake up and see the sunshine, I agree. I know there is a centre but that's been paid off now and we all did a whole lot of lamington drives, car raffles and i even remember a time of door knocking to collect the old 1 litre glass bottles to get the 10c to raise for our beloved community. There wasnt anything they didn't think of and this was all in the name of
"youth outreach" uhum bollox
"bringing families together" uhum bollox again over and over
who even authorised bethel being a charity? did they give time or money to the homeless or less fortunate? i dont think so. what about all the people in bethel that had no money to get by but still put into that cup!
again i will ask if anyone ever saw special K put anything into the waxed milkshake cups. Oh no that's right, they introduced numbered envelopes, I presume to keep tabs on the ones not putting in enough. i remember the gatherings where there were lectures of "you need to tithe more"
God must have been crying in heaven watching all of this being done in his name.
Thankyou Bystander and Finally,
"For children who simply cannot accept supernatural beliefs, the knowledge that the community will inevitably restrict their contact with their family is truly damaging" - you hit the nail on the head with that one.
"it still makes me freeze up with resistance at the mere suggestion by anyone to go to these things - something I don't know if I'll ever get over" - thats me!!!!
You both spoke words that I couldnt have said better.
I don't feel concerned about what some people are saying in supposed defence of all the bad things that happened as when you have seen and experienced them you KNOW they happened - so brainwashing just doesn't work anymore.
1) Remove tithing
2) Liquidate all assets and pass them onto to a recognised and renown charity
3) Allow those who wish to remain "in Bethel" meet at any stage, at any time, using their own resources.
4) Recognise that free will is God-given and should never be attempted to be subjugated via any person, organisation or process.
Could Bethel survive purely ad maiorem dei gloriam? I doubt it.
Well done, Jeez Louise,
Couldn't of said it better myself!
Trust has been lost amongst many people and as a previous "blogger" has said, "you are building on corrupt foundations".
Let it go and learn the real truth and life God has for you, it's beautiful.